Update (Jan. 26 2015): After insult, candidates hug and ‘cut the drama’
CHARLOTTE, N.C. — A candidate for the chairmanship of North Carolina Democratic Party is under fire today after insulting a fellow candidate who is transgender at a candidate forum in Gastonia on Tuesday.
Former state House Rep. Patsy Keever, who is currently the party’s first vice chair, attended the forum with three other candidates, including Janice Covington Allison, the first transgender candidate to run for the state party chair position.
During the event, Keever referred to Allison as “a man.” The comment came during Allison’s 10-minute address to the forum. The comments were captured on an audio recording,
As Allison spoke, she recounted the several ways she attempted to run as a state delegate to the 2012 Democratic National Convention in Charlotte.
“I ran as a senior citizen… I ran as a disabled vet… I ran as a woman… I ran as LGBT,” Allison told the forum. “And what did I leave out? There’s one more.”
“A man,” Keever said in the background.
“Huh? A what?!” Allison responded, as crosstalk and laughter ensued. “There ain’t no man left in here, honey.”
Allison said she was hurt by the comment — an oft-used insult against transgender women, stereotypically portraying them as a “man in a dress.”
“I was shocked when I heard what she said,” Allison said in a written statement to qnotes. “I would compare it to someone using a bigoted slur against me. I am a proud transgender woman and for me to be violated in this way at a public forum by a leader of the party was completely out of line.”
Allison added, “I believe Democrats are better than this and I feel as the first vice chair she must do better to represent our values as Democrats.”
Allison had also asked Keever for an apology.
Keever, who disputed the exact nature of the comment, told qnotes she delivered that apology personally on Wednesday morning.
“I have talked to her and she’s accepted my apology,” Keever said. “She was very understanding and she suggested that I apologize to the transgender community, which I certainly will on her Facebook page as soon as I get to Raleigh; I’m in the car driving right now.”
Allison confirmed Keever’s apology, but stressed the need for a wider apology to the entire community.
“I told her it’s fine and I accept your apology, but the apology is not just for me,” Allison said. “My whole community is up in arms. You need to write a statement and apologize to them.”
‘This is prejudice’
Others who heard the comments also interpreted them as an insult.
Ron Sanyal, another state party chair candidate, told qnotes he was surprised by Keever’s comment and has also called upon Keever to make a public apology.
“I was totally shocked,” Sanyal said. “The audience was shocked. That was conduct unbecoming of a candidate. We have to ensure respect and we have to be sensitive. We are trying to, as Democrats, to be open minded, not be sarcastic. I think that was a disrespect for [Allison].”
Sanyal said Keever’s comments were “not a slip of the tongue.”
“This is prejudice,” he said.
Keever insisted she never intended to offend Allison or throw an insult.
“She said there are five ways to run and she’d named four of them and I said, ‘man,'” Keever said. “As I look back at it — she was trying to remember all the different ways she had run and I just said ‘man,’ a one-word question. It was not meant in anyway to offend her or anybody else.”
Though party delegate selection rules call for an equal division of male and female delegates, the party’s affirmative action and inclusion plans, which open positions to women, LGBT persons and other minorities, do not have a position devoted solely to men.
Keever later posted an apology on Allison’s Facebook campaign page.
“I appreciated my time talking with LGBT leaders like yourself and Ryan Butler today, and for the opportunity to be better educated about this important community in our diverse family,” Keever wrote.
LGBT leaders support Keever, not Allison
Other LGBT leaders in the state have either endorsed or supported Keever, who they note has been supportive of LGBT issues in the past.
Chris Sgro, executive director of Equality North Carolina, has privately supported Keever.
“Trans North Carolinians deserve full respect and equality in all forums and settings in our state, and Equality NC will always fought for that,” Sgro said in a written statement. “Especially within a party that espouses equality and looks to make change on our behalf, this is disappointing. Not respecting a person’s gender identity is inexcusable, whether it is intentional or due to ignorance, and this is a teachable moment for our allies.”
When reached for comment on Wednesday, Sgro said Keever has a history of pro-LGBT support and he looks forward to working with her to further LGBT inclusion and education.
“I have known Patsy Keever personally and professionally for nearly eight years, and she is a good and fair-minded person who has long been an advocate for the LGBT community,” Sgro said. “While I imagine she did not mean disrespect, the comment is nonetheless emblematic of how much work we have left to fight for trans rights. I take it as a personal challenge to work with Patsy and other friends and allies to better understand and advocate for trans rights.”
Robert Kellogg, president of the Gaston County LGBT Democrats and vice president of the state LGBT caucus, said Keever’s words were “unfortunate,” but stopped short of withdrawing his endorsement.
Ryan Butler, president of the LGBT Democrats of North Carolina, said “no transgender person should ever be discriminated against, intentionally or otherwise,” in a written statement. He also said he’d spoken to Keever and will connect her with more transgender advocates.
“She explained to me that she unacceptably referred to another candidate who was attending the forum using an incorrect gender pronoun,” Butler said.
Butler, who has also personally endorsed Keever, is not withdrawing his endorsement.
“I have known Patsy for more than 5 years,” said Butler, who is married to Sgro. “As many people already know, I have already personally endorsed Patsy Keever for Chair and I remain as committed to that endorsement as I was when I first made it. I’m enthusiastic about her commitment to work together on LGBT issues.”
Neither Equality NC nor the LGBT Democrats of North Carolina have previously supported Allison’s historic first-time candidacy or otherwise publicly noted it.
Butler added on Wednesday, “Our caucus needs to do more work to educate the members of our own party on transgender issues. I believe having a transgender candidate for Chair is one great way to help do that and I applaud Janice for running.”
In a follow-up phone call after this article’s publication, Butler told qnotes that the statewide LGBT caucus has not endorsed any candidate and has a policy to remain neutral in party elections. Butler added that the caucus had previously planned to gather candidates’ views on LGBT issues, compile them into a voter guide and publish them for members of the caucus.
[Ed. Note (Jan. 21, 8:05 p.m.) — The original version of this article indicated that Chris Sgro had endorsed Patsy Keever. This is not accurate. Though Sgro has privately supported Keever, he has not publicly endorsed her. We have clarified this portion of the story to better reflect Sgro’s position. We regret the error.]
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And I’ll bet that some of her best friends are trans, too.
This article is a great example of why T is really a separate community and cannot rely on bus tossing homosexuals.
Like HRC, North Carolina L and G maybe B but definitely not T advocates accept candidates that are about as informed on the issues as Sarah Palin was on Supreme Court cases when she first ran for vice president. No wonder you red state losers cannot achieve equality at the state level.
At least I can say I am more informed about red state homosexual issues than you people know about blue state transsexual issues. For example, there is this app called Grindr that let’s you have casual sex hookups in your area so you don’t have to drop your wives off at church while you cruise the back of strip malls for man sex. There are plenty of ways for you lesbians to divorce your husbands and be with your girlfriends while getting full custody of your children and alimony to boot. It will help with your frequent headaches and anger issues.
I was disgusted with this Keever woman as well as the gay men who were trying to excuse her mockery of Allison. I was even going to contact them and complain, but then I read your petty, homophobic attack on all gay men and lesbians. Go complain about Keever yourself, gay-hater.
Talking to Keever wouldn’t have done no good. She, like Sarah Palin, is obviously too uninformed on issues to be a proper candidate but go ahead and pretend you have any political significance to placate your ego.
No positive legislation is ever going to come out of a red state for civil rights. It’s all court, so no one — especially in a blue state — needs your “help”. Miscegenation and sodomy laws are still on the books in your neck of the woods despite the Supreme Court striking them down as unconstitutional.
You really need to stop wasting time on political websites and just sign up for Grindr already. Cruising them strip malls, parks and public bathrooms are really hurting your ego real bad.
You Go, PolarGirl! Tell it like it is. We (Ts) do not belong with LGBs. Our issues are as different as night and day.
Polar Girl what the heck kinds of comments are those? Our issues might be different but we also have similarities. There are also many members of our T community who are gay, lesbian or bi-sexual. Your obnoxious comments to the gay and lesbian community are just as bad as those in the community who make obnoxious comments towards us. Enough already.
There are alsow omen that are of color but that doesn’t somehow justify wealthy white women being the political handlers of low income black and hispanic men either.
Lebsian community “men” who want to be labled as men but treated as women like yourself and quite typical of “women’s colleges” are part of the problem not the solution. The homosexuals needs to stop umbrellaing their transvestites with transsexuals already!!!
I have been a member of the SEC for several years as has Janice Covington. I have never heard or seen anybody be disrespectful to her or speak disrespectfully of her. I also have never heard anyone call her anything but what she is…a woman. Of course, there are many members and I don’t hear everything.
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